Erotic Surrender
Willing Submission of the Self:
Erotic Surrender is the sexual complement of Divine Dominance, and involves many of the same aspects of fantasy creation and enactment, extending foreplay, heightening anticipation and enriching sexual pleasure. It can last from a single playtime session to the occasional weekend of tease and denial, and for some Dominance and submission becomes an all encompassing lifestyle. It is a way of exploring the deepest emotional foundations on which a loving, fulfilling and devastatingly sexual relationship can be built.
Erotic Surrender is all about the willing submission of the self, devotedly and absolutely. It can bring emotional and sexual fulfilment, provide a sense of adventure, and fill your relationship with passion and desire. It is not, however, a mere game of Mistress and slave. With erotic surrender there are duties and responsibilities which go much, much further than doing as you are told:
i am not a slave. i am a servant. There is a difference…
A good servant knows things. First and foremost he knows how to behave, both towards his Mistress and to others. He remembers that even when he is not in the presence of his Mistress he is still her representative, and that others will judge Her on how he behaves.
Secondly, he knows how to serve. Not in the helpless sense of the beaten slave but with the dignity and honour of one who understands the privilege of servitude bestowed upon him by his Mistress. Slaves are used and discarded. A servant is chosen, trained, and allowed to serve.
Finally, a good servant strives to anticipate his Mistress’ every need. Every time a Mistress has to tell her servant something he should have known, he has committed a small failure and taken a retrograde step toward slavehood.
Being a good servant means placing your life in another’s hands, for their benefit and pleasure alone. This is not a submission to another’s will, but a willing surrender of the self to the needs and desires of another. Wholly and absolutely, without thought for the needs of his self, giving with love and respect every aspect of his being and dedicating himself in surrender to his Mistress
This is Erotic Surrender.