What’s it like wearing a chastity device?
This is probably the most regularly asked question we receive from our new chastity customers.
Physically the first thing you notice when you wear a chastity device is that it adds some extra weight to your penis. This can seem a little unusual at first. Not painful, just different.
It also means that your penis is pulled downwards a little more than normal. After a while it can feel very comfortable, once you’ve got used to wearing it you’ll soon come to enjoy the physical sensations of your confinement, even the beginnings of an erection will remind you of your loving keyholder.
Some men who are used to long term lock up actually feel “naked” without their chastity device.
Wearing a chastity device is a constant reminder of your commitment to your lover, that you’ve given control of your penis to another, you need permission to orgasm, and seek your reward in giving pleasure.
Is it Comfortable?
Once you’ve become accustomed to wearing a chastity device at times it will feel as if the cage of the chastity device is “caressing” your penis. This can heighten arousal, and feels like you’re wearing your own personal “bondage cuddle”.
The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful. Wearing a chastity device means your penis is denied the full sensation you usually experience, and being unable to touch yourself is going to be frustrating.
Generally wearing a chastity device does not hurt, but you shouldn’t always expect it to feel comfortable right away. It can take a little while to become used to it both physically and mentally. If you do experience discomfort it’s usually initially felt around the scrotum where the cock ring of your chastity device fits, and you may notice a little pinching. Frequent and liberal use of a good quality lubricant or skin cream such as E45 or Nivea could really help.
Will it Hurt?
When you first receive your chastity device you may experience some discomfort until you body becomes used to wearing it. Regular and frequent use of a good lubricant around the cock ring can help keep minor skin reactions to a minimum and aid comfort. You may also want to treat your skin around this area with a good quality cream such as E45, this will keep soreness to a minimum and give you sufficient lubrication to rotate your cage by a few degrees aiding general adjustment and improving day to day comfort.
At the start you will need to regularly experiment with ring or spacer or post adjustments to find the best fit, and should remove the device to check for any signs of skin damage. In general a chastity device may not fit you perfectly right “out of the box”, but with a little time, and care of yourself and attention to hygiene your body will soon adjust over a period of a few weeks.
Does a Chastity Device Prevent Erections?
Strictly speaking – No. Erections, although somewhat restricted, are not “severely” restricted and aren’t normally painful when wearing a chastity device. If you have the correct size cage as you become aroused your erection will push the cage away from your body and the “root” of your penis remains outside the device.
For more information and tips on daily wear we recommend you read through our list of articles in this chastity section.
Wearing a chastity device and having less orgasms means over time it’s possible that you will mentally tune in more to other erogenous zones; such as your neck, your nipples, your ears, your balls, and perhaps your anus. Through Chastity and orgasm denial you may become a more tender, more considerate, more sensitive and a more passionate lover. Gaining a better appreciation that your cock isn’t absolutely necessary for good sex. You learn to enjoy the pleasures of your own body without orgasm or direct touch to your penis. You become a better lover by discovering new ways to arouse and excite the body of your Mistress, and overall you discover that your pleasure is to be found in your Wife’s pleasure. Pleasing and pleasuring your Goddess is your reward – a reward that may earn you release and even orgasm.
Wearing a chastity device usually means that you actually become more sexually aroused during the day, as your mind returns to the one who holds your key. Every time you visit the bathroom you are reminded of your lock up and that this part of your body belongs to your Mistress.