The Art of Sexual Domination


The Divine Deliciousness of Sensual Control:

Divine Dominance involves many aspects of fantasy creation and enactment. It’s a form of role play that considerably extends foreplay, heightens anticipation and embellishes sexual pleasure. Divine Domination is fantasy enactment that can last from a single playtime session to the occasional weekend of tease and denial, and for some Dominance and submission becomes an all encompassing lifestyle.

Dominance and submission is all about controlling another. It can bring emotional and sexual fulfilment, provide a sense of adventure and have your man quivering with passion and desire for nobody but you.

Divine Dominance is all about playtime, sharing fantasies with one another, then enacting those shared secrets to enhance your sexual, emotional and loving relationship. Its common theme is Tease and Denial which can be divided into 3 key components:

* Cum Control
* Sexual Teasing
* Chastity

Cum Control, often called Orgasm Denial, employs methods of deferred sexual gratification. He is not permitted to cum unless you allow, or command, it.

Sexual Teasing uses a variety of techniques to create lots of low level sexual arousal, but never quite enough to bring him to climax.

Chastity fully encompasses both Cum Control and Sexual Teasing. “Chastity” is all about denial of orgasm and will often involve some teasing.

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Concerned you won’t make a good Domina?

The best dominas were once submissives, and many still very much have their own fantasies of surrendering their sole, mind and body to the control of another.

Just because you might have submissive desires don’t automatically reject experimenting with some domination play. If you fully emotionally, intellectually and physically understand erotic surrender, you are better able understand the desires of your submissive man.

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The strongest of men crumble so willingly at the command of a seductive lover.
The power of sensually intoned words, even when whispered, can tease the imagination, excite the mind and strengthen desire through anticipation.

As your lover’s Mistress your voice is much more important than any implement of correction.
The words you command can be as powerful as the whip you wield, or as restrictive as the restraints you employ.

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Saskia Zenn

 
About the Author… Saskia Zenn has worked for the last fifteen years in Marketing and PR. Over the course of her career, Saskia has managed all forms of Public Relations and Marketing campaigns for several high-profile and international organisations, and it is this flair and creativity which she brings to the new Tickleberry website.

“Becoming a co-owner of Tickleberry is a fantastic opportunity for me to bring together my personal and professional passions to create a really meaningful resource website for the BDSM community.”

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