Buying a Male Chastity Device

Devices and Desires You stand there. Silent. Obedient. Your Mistress closes the ring around you. For a moment your balls are cradled in her soft hand. You fight your urge. Lust would be disrespectful. And today you must respect. You must be grateful. She slips the cage onto your penis and marries it up with […]

Transforming India

India is changing. Fast. Last year we reported the burgeoning BDSM networks throughout the country. This week it’s something I never thought I would see. A Trans Gender Police Officer. That’s right! The southern state of Tamil Nadu has appointed the country’s first trans gender police officer.

Spank Holiday Weekend

Been naughty this summer? Well, I think it’s time you made amends. And we’ll begin with a good paddling. Or a flogging, perhaps? Have you been that bad? You did what?! Pull down your pants and get over that chair! It’s the cane for you and it’s going to hurt. Of course, there’s much more […]

Every Breath You Take…

Belongs To Me… Breath play is an orgasm enhancer. Most of us work our breath at the point of orgasm, either breathing faster, slowing it down or holding it. The pleasure of breath play proper is you’re handing the control to another person, which can make it

Saying it with Pain

The natural truth in BDSM relationships A few nights ago I was talking to a friend about Cock and Ball torture. She’s not into BDSM but she’s one of the very few ‘outsiders’ I know I can trust and talk to about the subject. While I was describing one of my

50 Shades – Soft-core Porn for the Ladies?

I like a good spanking… … just as much as the next guy. But the long-awaited Fifty Shades didn’t leave many of us with an afterglow, it seems. Bad sex, lousy dialogue and tortured spanking scenes (no pun intended) have disappointed many. Certainly it has lived up to a lot of opinion about the book. […]