Spank Holiday Weekend

Been naughty this summer? Well, I think it’s time you made amends. And we’ll begin with a good paddling. Or a flogging, perhaps? Have you been that bad? You did what?! Pull down your pants and get over that chair! It’s the cane for you and it’s going to hurt. Of course, there’s much more […]

Every Breath You Take…

Belongs To Me… Breath play is an orgasm enhancer. Most of us work our breath at the point of orgasm, either breathing faster, slowing it down or holding it. The pleasure of breath play proper is you’re handing the control to another person, which can make it

Rope Bondage – Time Lapse Video

The Art of Rigging & Japanese Rope Bondage I love Japanese rope bondage, it’s a real art and riggers are real craftsmen. Sometimes, when you look at a piece of Shibari work, it’s difficult to see where it starts and where it ends. This superb video by John Tisbury and Taner Tatham gives a

Thoughts on Blindfolds

To See or Not To See Why a Blindfold should be in every BDSM toy cupboard Often, Masters and Mistresses never experience what their sub does when a blindfold is used, which is a pity because understanding more about your senses and emotions when you can’t see can really help improve the whole game for […]

Church of Sinvention Leather

With so much poor and mediocre quality leatherwork on the market nowadays it’s a rare godsend to find a company who take real pride in their craft from raw materials to end product. Sinvention are one of the

50 Shades of Music & Video

Safewords

Why Use Safewords? For many, Safewords are an important part of BDSM play. Used like traffic Lights they can indicate three levels of caution: Green – Everything’s fine, let’s keep on going. This is a very useful check if the bottom is exploring new play experiences or

Safety in Bondage and BDSM

Safety. It’s really Simple! For a serious couple, and by serious I mean a couple who love and care about each other, Bondage and BDSM can be an exciting and enriching part of their relationship. As a shared experience it involves firmness, physical restraint and